Thursday, February 28, 2013

Developmental Evaluation Results

The title of this blog, Overcoming Tiny Obstacles, couldn't have been more accurate to what we are experiencing... as the times goes by, I get more convinced about it. It's one obstacle after another. Tiny obstacles, but obstacles at last. Trying to overcome each one as they present, and praying and hoping that they don't get bigger, or more difficult, and that once and for all, they all disappear. But that's not happening... not just yet.

Just when we got all excited about the huge improvement of Patrick's low muscle tone, we discovered that his ability to talk was affected too. We thought that by being able to explore (by running, climbing...) the same way as his friends, he would reach the same developmental stage as them. But then speech delay came along and we realized how important was language in the learning process. How can he understand abstract concepts, like counting or feelings, when he can't even name the very basic ones?

Tuesday, February 12, 2013

Friendship helps overcome obstacles


So much is going on with Patrick right now that I have tons of posts to write... I just can't seem to find the time to do it! He recently had his 1 year evaluation with the Early Intervention Services from the Infant and Toddler Connection. He also had his 6 month evaluation with the Developmental Pediatrics at the Children's Hospital. Some were good news and some... not so much. Patrick has also increased his Speech therapies to 3 times a month (things aren't going so well in that regard) and he still has his physical therapies once a month, so he is now receiving weekly services.

I hope my husband finds some free time to help me with the kiddos so that I can write all about that. In the meantime, I want to talk about how friendship has been a life saver to our family. Since I became a stay-at-home mom, I wanted to be able to hang out with other stay-at-home moms, and I was so lucky to find a group of  moms that met less than 2 miles from my house! I want to dedicate this post to give a shout out to the wonderful moms group at St. Louis Catholic Church. Being part of this group is great in so many ways. Here are a few reasons: