Patrick is happy like most (if not all) the kids I personally know, so nothing to be amazed about it here. He didn't enjoy much to be around toddlers, but he would get along very well with people that were on his same speed. I think most parents get to hear from other people that our children are "good", "smart", "cute", "big", and "happy" kids. But I not only get to hear that about Patrick, but also, people constantly comment
with amusement, about his very own personality, stating they haven't met a kid so "content, laid back, warm, smiley, sweet and easy going" as Patrick is.
|
Patrick had just met his auntie from Mexico |
|
Meeting our friends from Florida for first time |
|
1st time meeting great auntie! |
Even then, I always thought this was the case for most kids. But then as I started reading blogs and forums about children with hypotonia, one thing that every parent always said about their daughter or son was: "She/he is always happy, the happiest, laid back kid I know". Most of them, had 3, 4, 5 children, and somehow, of all their children, the one with hypotonia seemed to be the happiest one. So, if there is something special about their condition, that makes them more content, laid back, warm, smiley, sweet and easy going than "normal" kids, what is it?
So here I'm trying to come up with an answer. Below are some thoughts.